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A great week with many excellent posts from my fellow bloggers to share with you.

Nicole at Rainy-Day Saver talks about Marriage and Managing Finances. She discusses the different styles people have when it comes to handling the houshold finances and ask her readers to share their own experience. Yes, Nicole, I promise to show you my drywall talent, once it’s up. Still boxing out pipes and running the final wires. Today’s post title is taken, sort of, from this post.

My Tax Crush, Kay Bell broke the news that the House passes tax extenders. It was the very end of May and they were still figuring this out? Thanks, Kay, for breaking that news.

On Women’s Personal Finance.net I read 46 Things I Wish My Mom Taught Me About Money, a nice compilation of advice in different areas of personal finance. Topics included The Very Basics, Buying a House, Credit & Debt, Education, General Spending, Health, and more. Each of these topics had some great bits of advice. A lot of pressure on good ol’ mom, I’d say.

Channeling Dr Thomas Stanley a bit, my friend and fellow Money Mavens Network member Len Penzo told us about the 19 Things Your Suburban Millionaire Neighbor Won’t Tell You. Those millionaire neighbors are not who you think, and they don’t live the way you’d imagine. Len does an excellent job introducing us to them.

Financial Samurai explains the Emergency Fund Fallacy. His goal is to make all of his money work hard, and not segregate funds for so-called emergencies. For what it’s worth I’m on Sam’s side of this discussion.

Kevin at Out Of Your Rut shares 15 Ways to Cut Your Grocery Bill to the Bone. As you must know by now, I’m a sucker for a good list, and this is right up there. My favorite one here? 11. The biggest “tightwad” in the house should do the shopping. Amen. Sorry, Jane, I can buy half of what’s in your cart  for a fraction of what you paid, less than half in most cases. No, that tiny jar of sliced pickles is not worth $2.49. I can get a jar 8 times the size (A gallon instead of a pint) for $3.69. Yes, it fits in our fridge. Yes, I’ll even slice them for you.

Last, Mark Riddix at Money Crashers told us about 3 Overlooked Mistakes That People Make With 401k Plans. Mark is conservative in his approach, and in these times, that’s ok by me. So check out how to avoid 3 of the mistakes he’s seen others make.

Joe

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Retirement Planning

This week’s political cartoons were focused on the oil spill, with the odd implication it was Obama’s fault.  So, I decided to spare my readers any of those and offer one closer to my focus, on retirement.

Joe

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Frugal Friday Week 35

Earlier this week I discussed the book Predictably Irrational. I suspect the author Dan Ariely would appreciate the approach I took, using my own examples instead of just repeating anecdotes from his book. Today, being Frugal Friday, I’d like to offer one example appropriate for today. Last week, my wife, daughter and I were in the car, and I brought up the concept of anchoring, setting up a price that becomes the price in the consumer’s mind to move up or down from. I asked my daughter what she thought of an item that was $50 on sale from $100. She thought it was a great deal, ready to spend her money on it. But wait, Jane, I never even told you what the item was, do you see how silly this is? What if this was a chain saw or anything else you have no use for? Hmmm…..

Let’s see. It didn’t take long for such an item to come to my attention, not 50% off but 63%! This was one of eBay’s daily deals. I suggest you sign up, but then control yourself. Some of those deals really are great, others, not so much. One better view of what this Professional Hot Dog Griller does. (I guess I’m just an amateur)

I must admit, the machine looks great, and Waring makes products that last. When I mentioned this item to both the ladies in my life their reaction was “You didn’t buy it, did you?” There’s something about the single function items that make it tough to justify. The bread machine? Paid for itself in money saved compared to buying loaves of bread, and in the fun in trying so many different recipes. The Panini press? It was my reaction to my family dropping $20 for sandwiches I can make at home for half that with the press. What do you think? Do you buy some things just because they’re half off and then realize it still wasn’t worth it? Is your kitchen full of one trick appliances? You still use your showtime rotisserie?

Joe

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Predictably Irrational

Predictably Irrational, The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions, was published in 2008, but somehow just came to my attention recently. As with any good book, I’m sorry I hadn’t heard of it sooner, but sometimes the forces that be come together in my favor, as the author Dan Ariely has written a sequel titled The Upside of Irrationality which by coincidence, is due in stores today.

If I haven’t made it clear, I found this book to be a fascinating read. In a genre similar to Freakonomics, Dan offers a series of anecdotes and experiments which he weaves into his central premise, that people act in an irrational,  yet predictable way. I could share a number of those with you, and suggest you read the book for a more thorough analysis, but instead, allow me to share with you examples from my own life that reflect the exact phenomenon Dan described.

A few weeks back, I found myself in a store called Lush, purveyors of bath and body items and home of the $7.95 for 3.5oz bar of soap. Yes, that’s $36.34 per pound, and about 25 times my benchmark price for soap spending. This was with my 11 year old daughter, and the total, $46, was a month’s allowance or about 8 hours of time spent babysitting. The cashier looks at us and says “you get a free bar with a $50 purchase.” So, like an idiot, I tell her to grab two bars she’d like and I paid the difference. Spending $7.95 for two bars of soap made no sense, really, but as Dan described, a similar situation took place when Amazon started offering free shipping for orders over $25. You buy a $19.95 book, and see that just $5.05 more will get you free shipping, so of course, you buy another book, one you may not have really wanted or could have gotten from the library.

Next, my daughter’s aunt and grandmother had given her Starbucks gift cards during our last visit. I then observed how she used the cards over the next few weeks, treating friends to drinks, or asking if I wanted to go, offering to pick up the tab. She’s generous by nature, but it was clear to me that she was more so when it was not with her own cash. Holding a gift card in her hand made a difference in how she treated the $50 of value locked in that plastic. Dan shared similar stories of controlled experiments determining how people treat a gift card or credit card differently than cash.

Last, Dan offers an interesting discussion of social norms vs market norms. You wouldn’t approach your mother-in-law after a fine Thanksgiving meal and offer her the perceived value of the meal, that’s not quite socially acceptable. Yet, there are times when the social and business collide. I’ll offer a recent example from my family. Last year, our daughter expressed an interest in babysitting/mother’s helping. At 10, we felt she was mature enough to help out a mom so she could study for an upcoming exam while my daughter watched her little one in the next room. Worked out great. Skip ahead to this year. A mom who happens to be a close friend of ours drops her 4 year old off and we all kind of hang around the house. When she picked her up, somehow my wife tells her to keep her money. Of course, my daughter waits until our guests are gone and asks what just happened. So my wife pays her, and in turn, I ask what just happened. How did I just get stuck paying my own daughter to watch someone else’s child and more important, how do we spell out when payment is expected (by my daughter)?

After reading Predictably Irrational, I gained new insight into situations that I ran into as well as a different perspective on some just passed. I hope my own stories helped illustrate just how easily the lessons of this book can be applied you own life. In some cases, you might just understand better how you just paid $8 for a dollar’s worth of soap, other times, it might help you change the direction you might take in the decision process.

If you read it, please share your own thoughts on this great book. Are you or your friends predictably irrational too?

Joe

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The Friends of Bella

Today I’d like to share a story with my readers and a request for help. In my day job, I was calling on a client and saw a flier that gave details about how a young girl fell ill on Easter and not too long after, had lost her limbs to a strain of pneumonia called “streptococcus pneumoniae sepsis.” The flier referenced a web site her family set up, FriendsOfBella.org to help raise money for many of the things she’ll need, among them retrofitting her house to make it wheelchair accessible for one. That night, I made my donation and tweeted the story. A number of my tweeps wrote to me that they also donated, a couple checking with me that I verified the story was true. Fortunately, the local paper, the Boston Herald ran an article, Girl’s harrowing journey defies deadly odds.

Time passed and my desire to help increased. I stopped by her Facebook page and got permission to add a widget to my sidebar, and invite fellow bloggers to do the same. I asked my fellow blogger Pete Anderson who is a skilled graphic artist and owner of Logos For Websites to take the image from their site and create the widget for me.

Pete did a great job, and asked that I take his fee and forward it on to the fundraising efforts. If you are a blogger, please feel free to do what you’re comfortable, adding the image and linking, or just slipping the story into a weekly roundup. If you are a regular reader, you know I never have my hand out, except on behalf of others, my top non-religious charities linked to the right.

Let’s send a message to Bella and her family, there are people out there who you may never have met, but are two, three, four degrees of separation away from you, and your story has touched us.

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